Reaching your 30s and 40s can mean big changes. You’ve likely settled into your career, perhaps started a family, or simply grown into your true self. Yet, these decades also come with new experiences—like longer recovery times after a night out, that occasional creaky knee, and for many, the first signs of hair loss.
Noticing a receding hairline or thinner patches up top? You’re far from alone. Changes in hair with age are incredibly common, and they can take a lot of us by surprise. But here’s some good news: you’re not helpless, and hair loss doesn’t have to define how you view yourself.
Here’s your friendly guide to understanding what’s happening, accepting what you can’t change, and taking action where it matters.
Biology is at Play
Most men will experience some hair thinning by their mid-30s. It may happen earlier for some, or in gradual stages for others. By 50, about 85% of men will notice notable hair loss—a figure consistent whether you’re in Galway or Glasgow.
The main culprit is androgenetic alopecia, or male pattern baldness, driven largely by genetics and a hormone called DHT (dihydrotestosterone). DHT causes hair follicles to shrink, resulting in finer, shorter hairs—and eventually, no hair at all.
Understanding that hair loss is a natural part of biology (not something you caused) is the first step in reclaiming control.
Considering Stress, Diet, and Lifestyle
While DHT is a primary trigger, it’s not the only factor. Your 30s and 40s can bring increased stress—more responsibilities, job pressures, maybe sleepless nights if you have young children.
Stress can lead to telogen effluvium, a type of hair shedding caused by hormonal and nervous system changes. Diet is crucial too: insufficient iron, zinc, or vitamin D can affect hair health. And lifestyle choices that didn’t matter in your 20s—like skipping meals or …